How to Legally Wed in Washington State for Your Elopement
Eloping in Washington State offers breathtaking backdrops, from misty rainforests to alpine lakes and rugged coastlines. But before you say "I do," it's important to understand the legal steps required to make your marriage official. This guide will walk you through the process of legally getting married in Washington for your elopement.
How to Legally Wed in Washington State for Your Elopement
Eloping in Washington State offers breathtaking backdrops, from misty rainforests to alpine lakes and rugged coastlines. But before you say "I do," it's important to understand the legal steps required to make your marriage official. This guide will walk you through the process of legally getting married in Washington for your elopement.
Step 1: Apply for a Washington State Marriage License
Who Can Apply?
Couples of any gender, age 18 or older (or 17 with parental consent or court approval).
No residency requirement – you don’t have to live in Washington to get married here!
Where to Apply?
You can obtain a marriage license from any county in Washington State. Some popular counties for elopements include:
King County (Seattle area) – Apply online or in person.
Whatcom County (near Mount Baker) – Offers quick processing.
Clallam County (for Olympic National Park elopements) – Convenient for couples eloping at Hurricane Ridge or Lake Crescent.
Skagit County (for North Cascades elopements) – A great option for couples eloping near Diablo Lake.
Many counties allow online applications, but you may need to pick up the license in person or have it mailed.
Required Documents:
Valid government-issued photo ID (driver’s license, passport, etc.).
Both partners must apply together, either in person or via an online process (if available).
A small fee (varies by county, typically $60-$80).
Step 2: Observe the Waiting Period
Washington State has a 3-day waiting period after receiving your marriage license. This means you cannot get married on the same day you receive the license, so plan accordingly!
Example: If you pick up your license on a Monday, the earliest you can legally marry is Thursday.
Step 3: Choose an Officiant
To legally wed in Washington, you need a registered officiant to perform your ceremony.
Who Can Officiate?
Ordained ministers or religious leaders (including online-ordained officiants from Universal Life Church or American Marriage Ministries).
Judges or court officials.
A friend or family member who becomes ordained online.
Many elopement photographers, including myself, are ordained and can officiate your ceremony while capturing stunning photos!
Step 4: Sign Your Marriage License
After your ceremony, your officiant and two witnesses must sign the marriage license.
Witness Requirements:
You need two witnesses over the age of 12.
If you’re eloping just the two of you, I can help find witnesses (such as a fellow photographer, vendor, or friendly hiker if you're in a remote location!).
Step 5: File Your Marriage License
Your officiant is responsible for returning the signed marriage license to the county where you obtained it. Most counties require it to be mailed or delivered within 30 days after the ceremony.
Once filed, you can request certified copies of your marriage certificate (needed for name changes, legal documentation, etc.).
Bonus: Tips for a Stress-Free Legal Elopement
Plan around the 3-day waiting period – Apply for your license early to avoid delays.
Bring extra witnesses if needed – Some vendors (like photographers) can step in.
Check park permit requirements – If you’re eloping in a national park, you may need a separate wedding permit.
Confirm with your officiant – Make sure they’re legally recognized in Washington.
Ready to Plan Your Washington Elopement?
If you need help choosing the perfect location, finding an officiant, or capturing the magic of your day, I’d love to help! Contact me to start planning your dream elopement in Washington State!